The Importance of Human Connection

“God is "A father of the fatherless, A defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. Like a mountain is immoveable, He is our Defense." Psalm 68: 5

Like a mountain is immoveable, He is our Defense and we shall not be moved into the familiar valleys of grief. Let's stay on this journey getting to this mountaintop peak spirit and mindset together. It is ok to expect and to often go deep into the valleys of grief.

It is not necessarily just a sad place where the spirit of depression, anxiety, and loneliness meets you and keeps you there attempting to consume you indefinitely. It can be a deep place where you commune with God whenever you find yourself in the familiar valleys.

Let Him embrace you, hold you up, and then allow Him to release you back into your moments, your day, and into your your new week. Know that this can a place of solitude and comfort with God. Your perspective will change.

You are not alone, even in your grief valleys and times of solitude from the world. You + God = The most important human-spiritual connection.

You can change your mindset from being all alone and "on the mend" to spending time AL-ONE with God.

Accept this as a familiar place where He can mend you back to life and even use your grief wound to help another widow come through...or cross over the bridge.

This is what I did every day. I went there willingly knowing that He was with me or would meet me there. I came out each time with more strength, understanding, and discernment on my spirit being. I was transformed in my mind and thinking on the previous negative and daunting misconceptions about the spiritual meaning on the issue of death and dying.

I know now it is not the end. Dying is returning back to God from whence we first came to be. It is finding our way back home to our creator who only loans us to this world for such a time as this. I find comfort in knowing that God said He would never leave us.

Touch is what we miss the most from losing our spouses. Allow Him to touch you so that you can again touch others with your spirit of love and commitment as you did with your beloved. A Widow's Peak aims to touch every woman that God sends on our path. We are a community that together mourns, rejoices, cries, learns, and celebrates one another on this new and unfamiliar journey of valley lows and mountain highs.

We have this epic kindred-spirit connection of sharing this special loss.

Our shoulders can bear the weight of this familiar spirit of grief. Let's move our lives towards the light of a new beginning. Don't allow grief to move you to an immoveable state indefinitely.

Stay close to God and look back through all of your memories of your beloved.

I remind myself of this too everyday when I look back and see how consistently He carried me through this valley of grief that wanted to take me out.

But I stood firm and determined to live again with the love that only God could've given. immoveable in your resolve to heal and live again. This is the importance of a spiritual & human connection. It is hope!

Lets celebrate life together and get on with our new lives!